Coaching change-makers in critical thinking to align with your values & truth, develop confidence & self-mastery, and contribute to an equitable & just society.
For years, I used to think that success could only be a milestone event in the public eye.
Here's what I've learned about how my old beliefs about success keep me in the closet.
The honest, natural, and pure expression of true love precludes prejudice.
You deny your true nature if you try to deny who you love.
To deny your true nature is to deny the fact — and the truth — that you are of nature.
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“If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to.”
The Tao Te Ching was written over 2,500 years ago, yet it is still a timeless collection of wisdom and insight to this day.
In early January 2021 (remember COVID-19?), I received an email with a link to a list of the top 80+ articles on Medium about planning your goals for 2021.
Seriously! 80 articles?
Who has time for that? 😛
If you want to procrastinate, this would be a perfect "rabbit hole."
But it's that time of year, isn't it? The "End of Year Review" time. 📆
You might already be thinking about how 2023 went for you, what you’ve accomplished and learned, your major milestones, and so on.
During the summer of 2020, I couldn’t help but witness how problematic polarizing behaviour was becoming for humanity.
As an observation, the more we seek to label, identify, and categorize individuals or groups, the more challenging it is to see nothing but separateness and division.
What are the benefits of knowing what’s most important to you?
Knowing what you value will make a significant difference on the:
1. Quality of your decisions
2. Efficiency of your actions
3. How swiftly you accomplish your goals.
4. How little you struggle
Unfortunately, most people don't have clearly defined, written-out core values.
At best, they think they know what they value.
Usually what we call values are beliefs and morals we learned from our parents, society, or religion.
That doesn't mean those values are good or bad.
If you're a creator, you need to get paid! 💵
The more efficient you are at brain-dumping and organizing your ideas, the more easily and quickly you will complete your most important projects — the ones people want from you.
A 🧵 about the 3 fundamental productivity tools.
Efficient productivity is the skillful completion of what you planned to accomplish.
Unfortunately, many people are not effectively using the most efficient productivity tools.
The result?
Not knowing what to prioritize, showing up late, and feeling overwhelmed.
What can you do when you feel like you've lost your sense of purpose?
Given all the struggles and challenges in the world today, it's normal to feel helpless or without direction.
Here are 3 simple practices that will help you get back on track.
Recently, a coaching client told me they felt like they'd lost their way.
I asked them to describe what had been happening and what changed since they last felt a clear sense of clear purpose and meaning.
The idea that self-esteem is earned is an inhumane approach to personal development.
I wish I knew where the expression, ‘Self-esteem is earned’ came from, but I believe the problem with it is found in the definition of the verb, 'to earn.'