10 striking truths you must learn to become an attractive character

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Character is everything valuable in you You can... • Lose your money • Lose your family • Lose your health But if you lose your character? It's game over No one will remember you, do business with you, or help you Character is all you have

Character goes deeper than reputation Reputation is like the shadow on a tall tree At noon it's short but at sunset it's long Reputation is people's perception of you It changes. But guess what? The tree stays the same day or night Grow your character like a steady tree

Character is built through suffering You don't build the most valuable part of you sitting on the couch watching Netflix You need to get out there You need to fall down You need to hurt You need to get back up You need to do what you're scared of THIS IS THE WAY

Character gives you power and respect Character gives you the kind of authority that doesn't need money, looks, or smarts to back it up Even if you had them, people won't respect you if you have a weak character Don't gamble your ability to influence on a weak character arc

Character filters how you perceive life If you've been told you have a bad attitude it's because you have a character flaw. Attitudes are easier to see and feel. Character is revealed under duress.

Character emerges when you're tested Most of us live in a safe and ordinary world But only NPCs live in that shit If you want to be the main character Play a game True character emerges when faced with struggle And a road of trials builds up strength in character

Character is your habitual expression People see THIS version of you They don't see the consistent execution of habit stacking over time It's never really about handling the big things, it's about the small ones If you want to change your character Change your habits

Character leaves clues in your persona We all have a variety of traits But you may not know what they are Invest in a personality test Look for patterns in your strengths and weaknesses Confirm with friends and family Refine this data for public consumption

Character development needs sacrifice And simplicity The goal (in this order) is to: 1. Define your character 2. Design your character 3. Refine your character You can only refine by eliminating what's not necessary Don't stay attached to old aspects of you Move forward

Character is expressed everywhere And in everything A person of strong character will imprint their core self onto their • appearance • possessions • relationships • legacy work • community • & children It's beautiful and human to do this Do it well It's your art

Character is at the center of everything. Especially on social. Learn how to develop yours online And become the main character here 👇 twitter.com/i/spaces/1DXGyDDYwZbKM